27). The authoritative style is one that encompasses both these important aspects. In terms of this theoretical stance as a parent I provide love and affection and at the same time set boundaries and limits to behavior. The child is aware of limitations that should not be transgresses but at the same time is also fully aware that they are cared for. In essence this mode of parenting is "...the best way to develop...self -confidence in the developing child" (Seddon, 2003, p. 27).

Central to this stance is communication. As has been noted, it is essentially a democratic style of parenting and the rules and limitations are explained to the child and not just imposed objectively, as would be the case in an authoritarian style of parenting. In the authoritative style there is a balance that is maintained between care and rules. Studies have shown that, "Children whose parents manage...
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