Although this is a women's studies class I think what we are ultimately studying is what it means to 'be' human. How does being labeled male or female affect the way we relate to others and see ourselves? We are studying our relationships -- with the same and with the opposite gender, and also our self-perceptions. I was taught from an early age to be respectful of women, not in a patronizing way, but by stressing the need to pull my weight around the house -- sometimes by cooking and cleaning, other times through more stereotypically masculine activities. I also had to show consideration and respect for everyone's opinion, male and female. My mother considered herself a feminist because she believed in equality. She believed in treating others fairly, and demanded not to be treated as a second-class citizen. By setting this role model of strength, she enabled me to...
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