Essay Instructions: Intimate Relationships-Book Report
Book: Lerner, H.L. (1986) The Dance of Anger: A Woman's
Guide to Changing The Patterns of Intimate Relationships,
New York: Harper and Row
2 PAGES MAX NO MORE OR NO LESS REQUIRED
****Please have ONLY have a FEMALE do this report because I am a female and this book only relates to females in particular.
This book report MUST cover the following points:
A. What made you chose this particular book? What issues does it address in your daily life?
B. What are the author's major points? Do you agree or disagree with them? How can you apply these points to your daily life? What situations might stop you from applying what you have learned? What can you do to overcome these barriers?
C. Would you recommend this book to others? Why or why not?
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Total Pages: 6 Words: 1830 References: 0 Citation Style: MLA Document Type: Research Paper
Essay Instructions: The research paper I need from you (please!) is the third in a series of papers we have been assigned by our crazy professor. The first two papers I have written but am under the gun for the third.
The following is the first paper that I wrote:
Problem Identification Paper
Self-disclosure has been shown to make audiences feel closer to the presenter (Englebert, 2002). Self-disclosure takes place not only in the auditorium between presenter and audience, but also between males and females at home, in the car, in social settings and any other place where interpersonal communication occurs. Self-disclosure affects all of our interpersonal relationships. Because interpersonal relationships are important to most human beings, this paper suggests a research problem based on this topic.
Among women?s communication styles and tendencies, their higher levels of self-disclosure have generated interest in our field. When women are observed in interpersonal intimate relationships, either female-to-female or female-to-male, their use and level of self-disclosure may be expected to influence such variables as their level of communication satisfaction and the number and length of interpersonal relationships they maintain. Based on this speculation, the following problem is advanced of research: What is the relationship between women?s use of self-disclosure in interpersonal intimate relationships and the number and length of the relationships they maintain?
This paper has isolated self-disclosure in women?s communication styles as a variable and asked a research question relating it to the number and length of interpersonal intimate relationships. This problem suggests an interesting and helpful research area to guide future investigation.
The following is the second paper I wrote:
Self-disclosure has long created interest in the field of communications (Englebert, 2002). This paper will examine a specific research issue in self-disclosure. Specifically, this paper will review a problem question for future research and identify and define two key terms in the problem.
Self-disclosure is an important variable in effective, meaningful interpersonal communication. The question that has been isolated for research in this paper is: What is the relationship between women?s use of self-disclosure and reciprocation in interpersonal intimate relationships and the number and length of the relationships they maintain? The problem contains two major terms for definition. The first of the two terms is self-disclosure and the second is interpersonal intimate relationship. Each of these terms will be reviewed separately in the following paragraphs.
Self-disclosure is a term that has many different definitions. However, only three schools of thought will be examined here. The first school of thought maintains that self-disclosure is sharing information with others that they would not normally know or discover. Self-disclosure involves risk and vulnerability on the part of the person sharing the information (Borchers, 1999). This is generally a good definition but lacks in that it does not exclude situations or instances. Self-disclosure is not always a risky or vulnerable action. Self-disclosure is sometimes used to maintain the integrity of a relationship. Consistent self-disclosure is vital in many intimate interpersonal relationships. Without it, tension may be felt by one of the participants or they may even feel that the other is withholding information. Since this definition excludes a very vital aspect of self-disclosure, it is not a worthy definition. A second school of thought defines self-disclosure as a dance. This school of thought goes on to say that self-disclosure must be reciprocated at a mutually regulated pace. It progresses by small steps and is at every step reciprocated by similarly personal disclosures by your partner (Insel, 1999). This definition is not a worthy one in that it does not actually define the term. Instead, it explains how it is achieved. Therefore, the definition is deemed unworthy because the conceptual definition is not more precise than the term defined. A third school of thought defines self-disclosure as the process of deliberately revealing information about oneself that is significant and that would not normally be known by others (Adler and Towne, 1999, p. 358). This definition goes on to say that there are degrees and levels of self-disclosure, and the depth or range of disclosure in a message defines a relationship between two people as casual or intimate. They explain these levels of disclosure by defining clich?s, facts, opinions and feelings as the types of information people share as a way to determine the depth of disclosure. This is a very useful definition because it satisfies all of the standards required of acceptable definitions.
The second major term in this problem question is interpersonal relationships. As was done with the first key term, three schools of thought will examined. In the field of communication studies, relationships are most often defined with the implementation of a model. The first definition/model is that of Stephen Duck?s Relationship Filtering Model (Duck, 1985). Duck's model is a set of filters through which we make choices about the level of relationship we wish to pursue with others. The first filter, sociological/incidental cues, describes the constraints placed on our meeting people due to where we live or work. In other words, given our sociological location, there are some people we see a lot of and others we never meet. Preinteraction cues refer to information we gain about people before we even interact with them leads us to exclude or include individuals with whom we wish to have a relationship. Interaction cues refer to judgments we make in regards to whether one includes or excludes individuals from possible relationships as interaction begins. Last are cognitive cues. At the deepest level, we make judgments about people based on their personality and the degree to which we think it will match ours. As others reach this level, we consider them "best friends." Given that this model examines every aspect of relationship development, it is generally a good definition. However, there are many situations that have been excluded and also many situations that should be included but are not. Thus, this definition cannot be considered appropriate. The second school of thought is that of Mark Knapp and his Relational Stages Model (Knapp, 1984). Knapp?s model has five stages. The first is initiation. This is a short stage dealing mainly with making favorable impressions and observing one another?s actions. The next is experimenting. This stage is characterized by individuals asking questions of each other in order to gain information about them and decide if they wish to continue the relationship. The next stage is the Intensifying stage which states that self-disclosure becomes more common. The relationship becomes less formal, the interactants begin to see each other as individuals, and statements are made about the level of commitment each has to the relationship. The Integrating stage is next. This stage is where the individuals become a pair. They begin to do things together and, importantly, others come to see them as a pair. A shared relational identity starts to form in this stage. Finally, the last stage is bonding. During the bonding stage, rituals such as marriage, business partnerships and ?best friendships? are established. The model has the same defect as the previous definition. Several situations have been excluded and not all appropriate situations were included. The third school of thought maintains a simpler point of view. It is called the developmental view and it maintains that interpersonal relationships are defined by the interpersonal communication that takes place. From this view, interpersonal communication is defined as communication that occurs between people who have known each other for some time. Importantly, these people view each other as unique individuals, not as people who are simply acting out social situations (Gouran and Wiethoff, 1994). This is an acceptable definition. For the purposes of this research problem, this definition of an interpersonal relationship works very well by the standards set forth for acceptable definitions.
This paper has proposed a problem statement and has compared three definitional suggestions for each of its major terms. This paper has argued that acceptable definitions of terms may be found for both self-disclosure and interpersonal relationships.
He wasn't too nice is his critique of this paper but the third is the one I need you guys to do for me. My professor has VERY SPECIFIC instructions. They are as follows:
Literature Review Assignment
Write a brief paper in which you review literature related to your problem question. The paper is designed to develop an argument that justifies completing new research on the problem question you have selected. Let the paper take the following form:
Introduction: justify selection of this topic in the study of communication and overview the remaining points of the paper.
Problem: State the problem and provide any necessary context to understand it.
Theoretic Expectations: describe what is conceptually expected with the chief variables(s) involved
and (if possible) review how any relevant theory may explain these effects.
Review Literature: examine research literature for each variable you have selected (either separately
or together, depending on the nature of past research) by including these elements):
a. identification of variable to be reviewed;
b. summary of relevant research findings on the variable and appropriate criticism of research on
the variables (designed to help you justify the completion of new research on the topic);
c. assessment of relevant material that remains unknown about the topic (demonstrating a gap in
knowledge that invites the new research suggested by the problem question).
Future Research Priorities: indicate what research should be completed; identify the specific reasons
new research is invited.
Conclusion: summary of paper and bottom line statement of the notion suggested in it.
Write the paper very well. Work from an outline. Turn in two copies. Staple this form to the front of one copy. Use the APA form and cite everything you use. Your paper will be evaluated on the criteria in the following check sheet (minus four and a half points for each criterion not fulfilled).
___Introductory paragraph began by justifying importance of topic to field
___Introductory paragraph ended by specifically previewing paper main points
___Introductory paragraph cited at least two scholarly sources in field
___Introduction featured no writing inconsistent with the "A Guide to Writing and Usage" found on
the textbook website
___Problem stated in direct and obvious language
___Problem statement satisfied all requirements for a worthwhile problem statement
___Problem statement paragraph featured no writing inconsistent with the "A Guide to Writing and
___Discussion of theoretic expectations included conceptual expectations
___Discussion of theoretic expectations included consideration of relevant theory to explain the role of
the chief variable(s) in the research
___Discussion of theoretic expectations included no writing inconsistent with the "A Guide to Writing
___Variable to be reviewed isolated in clear and direct language
___Literature reviewed research by grouping research to build common argument(s) in a summary
narrative consistent with those found in the textbook and webpage (not a mini "book report"
___Literature review summarized what relevant information is known about variables
___Main review included no writing inconsistent with the "A Guide to Writing and Usage"
___Consideration of future research discussion summarized what relevant information remains to be
known about variables reviewed
___Consideration of future research discussion clearly argued why new research is invited by specific
and explicit identification of the gap(s) in knowledge that invite the new research suggested by the
___Consideration of future research discussion included no writing inconsistent with "A Guide to
Writing and Usage"
___Concluding paragraph began with a summary of the points in the paper
___Concluding paragraph ended with a single bottom line statement of the notion found in the paper
___Concluding paragraph featured no writing inconsistent with style sheets
___References in proper form
The reason I sent you the first two papers that I wrote is so that the third can sound like I actually wrote it...
Also, here is a list of resources I have compiled to date:
1. Trenholm, Sarah. (1995). Thinking through communication: An Introduction to the study of human communication. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
2. Schutz, William. (1958). Firo: A three-dimensional theory of interpersonal behavior. New York: Holt, Rinehart, and Winston.
3. Steiner, I.D. (1972). Group processes and productivity. New York: Academic Press.
4. Tubbs, Stewart. (1995). A systems approach to small group interaction. New York: McGraw-Hill, 1995.
5. Fisher, B. Aubrey. (1970). Decision emergence: Phases in group decision making. Speech Monographs, 37, 53-66.
6. Tuckman, Bruce. (1965). Developmental sequence in small groups. Psychological Bulletin, 63, 384-399.
7. Poole, Marshall Scott. (1981). Decision development in small groupsI: A comparison of two models. Communication Monographs, 48, 1-24; Poole, Marshall Scott. (1983). Decision development in small groups II: A study of mutiple sequences in decision making. Communication Monographs, 50, 206-232; Poole, Marshall Scott. (1983). Decision development in small groups III: A multiple sequence model of group decision development. Communication Monographs, 50, 321-341; Poole, Marshall Scott, & Roth, Jonelle. (1989). Decision development in small groups V: Test of a contigency model. Human Communication Research, 15, 549-589.
8. Dewey, John. (1910). How we think. Lexington, MA: Heath.
9. Irving, Janis. (1972). Victims of groupthink. Boston: Houghton Mifflin; Irving, Janis. (1982). Groupthink: Psychological studies of policy decisions and fiascos. 2nd ed. Boston: Houghton Mifflin.
10. Bormann, Ernest G., & Bormann, Nancy C. (1988). Effective small group communication. 4th ed. Edina, MN: Burgess.
11. Benne, Kenneth, & Sheats, Paul. (1948). Functional roles of group members. Journal of Social Issues, 4, 41-49.
12. Ruble, T.L. & Thomas, K.W. (1976). Support for a two-dimensional model of conflict behavior. Organizational Behavior and Human Performance, 16, 143-155.
13. Gouran, Dennis, W.E. Wiethoff, & J.A. Doelger. (1994). Mastering communication. 2nd ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
14. Gouran, Dennis, W.E. Wiethoff, & J.A. Doelger. (1994). Mastering communication. 2nd ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
15. Knapp, Mark. (1984). Interpersonal communication and human relationships. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
16. Duck, Stepehn. (1985). Social and personal relationships. In M.L. Knapp and G.R. Miller (Eds.) Handbook of interpersonal communication (pp. 665-686). Beverly Hills, CA: Sage.
17. Gouran, Dennis, W.E. Wiethoff, & J.A. Doelger. (1994). Mastering communication. 2nd ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
18. Luft, Joe. (1969). Of human interaction. Palo Alto: National Press.
19. Sieberg, Evelyn. (1975). Interpersonal confirmation: A paradigm for conceptualization and measurement. San Diego: United States International University. (ERIC Document Reproduction Service No. ED 098 634).
20. Trenholm, Sarah. (1995). Thinking through communication: An Introduction to the study of human communication. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
21. Hocker, J.L. and Wilmot, W.W. (1991). Interpersonal conflict. Dubuque, IA: William C. Brown.
22. Gouran, Dennis, W.E. Wiethoff, & J.A. Doelger. (1994). Mastering communication. 2nd ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
23. Zueschner, Raymond. (1997). Communicating Today. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.
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Essay Instructions: a review of five curent (1995 -2007) peer-review journal articles. Below is my topic, hypotheses and research questions.
Please use these sources
Janet Saltzman Chafetz (2004) Gendered power and Privilege: Taking Lenski one Step Further in Sociological Theory Vol. 22 issue 2, pages 269-277
Nichole Proulx, Sandra L. Caron, and Mary Ellin Logue (2006) Older Women younger men: a look at the implications of age difference in marriage in Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy Vol. 5 issue 4
Zak A., Armer, E. Edmunds, K., Fleury, T., Sarris, M., & Shatynski, B. (2001) Age-discrepant relationships: Do these romance fare well? In North American Journal of Psychology, Vol.3 issue 1 page 119
Monica Boyd and Anne Li (2003) May-December: Canadians in age-discrepant relationships. In Canadian social trend statistics Canada catalogue #11-008
Jacqueline Darroch, David Landry and Selene Oslak (1999) Age differences between sexual partners in the United States in family Planning Perspectives, Vol. 31, No.4 p. 160-167.
David Knox and Tim Britton (1997). Age Discrepant relationships reported by university faculty and their students. In College student Journal, Vol. 31 Issue 3, p.280
There was a time when society deemed it in bad taste or even taboo for women to bridge the age gap by dating a younger man, but so-called May-December romances are inevitably on the rise. Some believe that it is the age gap itself that will hinder the relationship, but this learner tends to believe that if the couple has enough in common and possesses more than just a “lust” for each other, any older woman-younger man relationship really can thrive and develop into something mutual, lasting, and beneficial.
Lenski (1984), in his theory of socio-cultural evolution, described five different types of societies that were separated by their technologies. They were the hunting-and-gathering societies, the horticultural and pastoral societies, the agrarian societies, the industrial societies, and the post-industrial societies. Advancements in technology translated into changes in the economic, social, and political system. As a society moved from a hunting-and-gathering society, in which there was equality between the sexes, to a horticultural society, the beginning of the devaluation of women’s work became apparent. During the agrarian stage, there was the largest amount of sex inequality due to the unequal physical distribution of work; men did heavy, manual labor, while women did housekeeping and child care. Simultaneously, the ideology developed that women were innately more suitable for less physical, more nurturing jobs, while men were inherently more competent at brawny corporeal work. During the industrial stage, women began to examine their disadvantaged position and began fighting for their rights. In the post industrial stage, women began to gain more power and have more equal social and economic status with men.
The economy of pre-industrial America was primarily based on family economies; the individual household was the fundamental unit of economic production. Within this unit, most of the necessities of life were produced by members of the family. These family economies were, by and large, subsistence economies. In this environment, there was no place for individuals living outside of a family. If someone lived individually, he or she was regarded as a criminal or beggar or worse. For both men and women, then, there really was no alternative, socially or economically, to living within a family.
Women began to function as productive laborers within this family economy at the age of six or seven and in some cases, earlier. In agricultural communities, this usually meant light farm labor, and in an artisan's family, this meant taking part in the business itself. Women in artisan families were very often trained in the skills of the family; as they grew up, they became more vital and important to the functioning of the business. On the farm, however, women's field labor was considerably less valued.
In general, women's lives were oriented around the economy of the household rather than relationships within the family. Both the marriage and the children took second place to production within the family economy; this was absolutely vital, for in a bad year, the family economy could mean starvation.
Many theories of sex stratification hypothesize the same relationship between resources and sex inequality as the more general theories of stratification discussed previously: increased access to resources by women diminishes inequality and male domination. Perhaps the best developed of such resource theories is Collins' conflict theory of sex stratification. Collins postulates that differences in strength and sexual aggression initially give men an advantage over women resulting in male domination. Changes in social organization and technology would create changes in the relative importance of other types of resources and, therefore, the importance of strength and aggression would diminish. In advanced market societies, as Collins characterizes contemporary Western industrial nations, education, employment opportunities, and financial resources became important determinants of position. Women's bargaining power would rise as their access to these resources increased (Huber, 2004).
Other theories of sex stratification imply a more complex relationship between resources and inequality, stressing the importance of institutionalized patriarchal norms and structures (Firestone, 2003), or the historically specific material conditions for women's inequality residing in their special relationship to production (Rowbotham, 1992). Both of these positions recognize women's continuing subordination despite changes in social structure and differences in class position. If control of resources unilaterally provides access to power (for women as well as everyone else), then there should be little differentiation by sex in the source, distribution, form, and use of great wealth. On the other hand, if sex is an overriding attribute; if patriarchal norms and structures take precedence; or if other aspects of women's class position prevail, then women should show significantly different patterns on these factors than men. In that situation, one would expect women's position among the wealthy to differ from men's and their ability to utilize great wealth and resources to be limited.
The changing economic, political, and social status of women also changed the scenario of sex relations. Traditionally, men dominated these relationships, and the choices within the relationships have most often been men’s. Today, more women are acquiring s dominant economic, political, and social status. Concomitantly, there is a change in attitudes about age-appropriate sex relations.
An examination of the position of women in society today raises issues that have implications for understanding both the status of women and the relationship between property and power in a post-industrial capitalist economy. Five questions will be posed: 1) Would an increase in economic status allow women to choose to forgo marriage? 2) If women need not marry, do they increase their choices in the types of intimate relationships they can socially construct? 3) Do non-traditional, age discrepant relationships in which the woman is older and the man younger benefit the couple and their family? 4) Are non-traditional, age discrepant relationships in which the woman is older and the man younger more egalitarian? and, 5) Are relationships in which the woman is older and the man younger becoming more traditional?
In this study, the researcher will explore the relationship between older women and younger men and the affects of such a relationship. The researcher has hypothesized that the increase in economic status for women has allowed women to remain single; income is the independent variable and marital status is the dependent variable. The second hypothesis the researcher will analyze is the increase in economic status of women has allowed women to have more choices in relationships; sex and income are the independent variables and type of current social relationship is the dependent variable. These two hypotheses will be tested through a survey of older women / younger men age discrepant relationships.
The study will also use a qualitative approach by using in-depth interviews with individuals who are in older women/younger men age discrepant relationships. The researcher hypothesized that age discrepant relationships are beneficial to the union; sex and age of respondent and sex and age of respondent’s partner are the independent variables, and happiness of relationship operationalized as time together, children from the relationship, and co-residence are the dependent variables. The second hypothesis states that older women / younger men age discrepant relationships are more egalitarian than older men / younger women or similar age couples; sex and age of respondent and sex and age of respondent’s partner are the independent variables, while equal partnership in the relationship operationalized as how decisions are made, amount of time spent on housework each week, and the amount of time spent with children each week are the dependent variables. The last hypothesis the researcher will study is that older women / younger men age discrepant relationships are more socially accepted in today’s society; sex and age of respondent and sex and age of respondent’s partner are the independent variables, and acceptance of older women / younger men relationships is the dependent variable.
Firestone, S. (2003). The dialectic of sex: The case for feminist revolution. New York, NY: Farrar, Straus, and Giroux.
Huber, J. (2004). Lenski effects on sex stratification theory. Sociological Theory. 22(2), 259-268.
Lenski, G.E. (1984). Power & privilege: A theory of social stratification. New York, NY: McGraw -Hill.
Rowbotham, S. (1992). Women in movement: Feminism and social action. New York, NY: Routledge.
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Essay Instructions: minimum 400 words with at least one citation from the text and one outside source
Please read the following article about Equity Theory:
Do you believe there are specific inputs that are critical for successful intimate relationships? Are there points in our lives when we will tolerate an unequal level of inputs and outputs?
Please keep all of your posts ?academic? and avoid sharing personal information. You should cite the text and outside research in your posts to receive full credit.
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