Seinfeld Relational Dialectics Theory in Part Explains Essay

Seinfeld

Relational dialectics theory in part explains the success of Seinfeld in capturing the tension inherent in interpersonal relationships. In Seinfeld, humor allows the tension to dissipate. Yet there remains an underlying tension that makes viewers cringe, even as they laugh. The same is true for Larry David's Curb Your Enthusiasm. In Seinfeld, the titular character Jerry Seinfeld might be the least cringe-worthy of the central foursome. Even slapstick Kramer does little to convey relational dialectics in action. It is really George and Elaine who carry most of the deeper humor in the show, partly because of their relational dialectics. Even Jerry, though, gets involved with romantic partners and thereby exhibits several aspects of relational dialectics theory. George Costanza, though, practically embodies every aspect of relational dialectics in his tension-ridden relationships and conversations.

One of the ways George embodies relational dialectics is his pathological lying, which practically defines his character. George has said things like, "It's not a lie if you believe it." In the "Marine Biologist" episode, George lies about his profession to impress his girlfriend.Because he told his girlfriend he was a marine biologist, he is expected to save the life of a beached whale -- which ironically he does. Also ironic is George's coming clean about his profession, only to get rejected by the girl even after he saved the life of the whale. The episode reveals George's corrupt ethical code; that lying is acceptable if the consequences are acceptable. George's ethics and morals are frequently pit against those of his friends. In one episode, George brags to his girlfriend about his intelligence and she calls his bluff by having him take an Intelligence Quotient/IQ test. George locks himself in a bedroom and asks Elaine to take the test for him, knowing her score will be much higher than his. The girlfriend persists to knock at the locked door while George pretends to be….....